How many people who like the 3.5 change to Perform play bards? I do, as often as I play any other class (although I mostly DM). And a fair number of my other characters have taken musical skills (Etan himself, a 2E thief, put a fair number of proficiency slots into his Musical Instrument skill and developed a reputation comparable to that of many bards). Let me pose a counterquestion: how many ranting about the 3.5 change to Perform have only played bards in 3rd edition? For all of you without previous edition experience, let me summarize the history of the bard and his performing abilities (sticking with core rules only for simplicity's sake).
1E: Bard was an optional "prestige" class (for humans or half-elves only) that first required at least 5 levels of fighter, then at least 5 levels of thief, at which point they finally started taking levels as bard. They were required to always have a stringed instrument. Their poetry inspired friends in combat, and a combination of singing and playing could counter sound effects or charm. Thus all 1E bards were required to have poetry, singing, and be able to play a stringed instrument, with no mention of any other types of performance.
2E: Bard became a core class requiring 12 Dex, 13 Int, and 15 Cha (and could only be human or half-elf). All bards could sing and play ONE musical instrument (not one group of them) of his choice. He could learn more instruments by spending proficiency slots--he got three slots to start, and gained another every four levels (and spending another slot on Musical Instrument meant you couldn't spend one on another skill). Either his music or his poetry/stories could now produce the bardic special abilities.
3E: No more requirements for bards, as they become a basic core class. Again, only music or poetry/stories produce bardic special abilities. The difference now is that, for the first time in D&D history, bards (and other characters) suddenly became virtuosi at everything as they put more ranks into Perform. An 8th-level bard with a 16 Cha who had no prior flute training could, by choosing flute as his new performance type at 9th level, suddenly have a 50% chance of playing the flute well enough to gain a national reputation doing so. Which brings me to my second question: how many of you ranting about the 3.5 Perform skill have any actual musical training? It takes years of training, practice (at least 6-8 hours a day, often even more than that), and dedication to develop a national reputation.
3.5E: Not much has changed about the actual bard class itself, except for getting 6 skill points/level instead of 4. Bardic abilities are still activated by music or poetics. Perform is now split into nine groups of generally-related specifics (although brass and woodwinds should have been separate--the flute players in my trumpet class several years ago didn't have any advantage at all, while my trombone experience made me a decent trumpet player from the beginning; the situation was reversed in oboe class).
So, from a multi-edition perspective, 3E is the only edition that actually had bards automatically become able to do every type of performance at an astounding level of virtuosity. Similarly, I cannot think of any historical or literary tradition that portrayed bards as invariably being experts in every type of performance--at most, notable examples could sing, play a single musical instrument, and recite poetry and stories; classically, Orpheus was only known for his harp, Homer for his poetry, and the god of music Apollo himself only ever mentioned playing a lyre. The 3E anomaly in the general bardic tradition is likely what the designers realized and corrected.
So why are these "true" bard players whining so much? Frankly, it smacks of powergaming to me (something I wouldn't expect from a bard player). 3.5 still penalizes "roleplaying" (roleplaying apparently defined in this case as being able to do all types of performance) much, much less than 2E did (almost forgot to mention that Singing and Dancing were also separate proficiencies from Musical Instrument), especially considering that your bard gets an extra two skill points each level. For roleplayers, how badly off are you when your 16 Cha 9th-level bard with only Perform (Singing) tries to play the flute? 45% of the time you'll play it enjoyably, and you'll manage a great performance 20% of the time. If you have access to a masterwork flute, you still have a 5% chance of a landmark performance that might garner some national attention. That's not much of a roleplaying nerf if you ask me.
All this said, your DM's game, your DM's rules. Just don't look so surprised when some of us (particularly those of us with actual musical training or previous edition experience) disagree with you (and provide solid foundations for our disagreement), and please especially don't imply that we don't like or play bards.