if you plan on sticking with 3.5 and have made that decision, please stop posting in the 4e forum.
Okay, we'll here's a question. 4e talk is relegated to this forum, by rule. If you could only post in this forum if you had something positive to say, that's virtually the same thing as "No criticizing 4e, the edition as a whole, on ENWorld." Because of the existence of this forum, someone who had no intention of switching to 4e would still be forced to post here if they wanted to say something pertaining to 4e. If you wanted to say, "I heard they introduced new feats related to animal husbrandry to 4e, and I don't like that," you could only post that in this forum, whether you intend to adopt 4, stick with 3.5, both, or haven't decided.
While I know people are tired of negativity, it is also the case that many people who have criticisms about 4e stuff have also faced a lot of negativity, everything from being called anti-fun to illiterate to a grognard or holdout. And nobody in the less positive camp has asked people who are more positive to stop posting.
I think anything resembling an intelligent opinion, expressed civilly, has a place. If this forum were specifically "Excited about 4e," you would have a point, and stuff that wasn't excited about 4e could presumably live in another forum. But you can't just have a site and say, "GURPS talk belongs in general, but unfavorable 4e talk does not belong here."
I think it is a responsibility to respect others with different opinions. If you post in this forum, you should post with an open mind. And when someone replies, you should read with an open mind. While some people have said some really negative stuff about 4e and WotC, they don't speak for everyone with reservations about 4e. And when someone characterizes people who are critical of 4e developments in general and tell them they don't belong here, I don't endorse that either.
I'm not too happy about a lot of 4e stuff. Time and again, I find myself on the other side of people who are excited about it. But that doesn't mean I'm here to hate. I have a lifetime of gaming experience that has shaped my tastes, and there are things I would prefer or not prefer about a new edition. But a new edition of D&D is exciting no matter what. Even if I never planned to play a single game of it, I would want to know as much as I could about it and discuss it with other gaming oriented people. So I think there is a place for declared holdouts. But I am not a declared holdout, and in fact, I think there are extremely few declared holdouts in this forum. Most spent their karma on mockery threads, got warned, and haven't been back.
With very few exceptions, people here are excited, even if some are dismayed. And if some 3.5 fans are bitter toward some aspects of 4e, I think that can be forgiven, just as it can be forgiven if some people looking forward to 4e are bitter about some aspects of 3.5.
Good gaming sites are hard to find, and I think we should all try to be excellent to one another.