pawsplay said:
if you plan on sticking with 3.5 and have made that decision, please stop posting in the 4e forum.
Okay, we'll here's a question. 4e talk is relegated to this forum, by rule. If you could only post in this forum if you had something positive to say, that's virtually the same thing as "No criticizing 4e, the edition as a whole, on ENWorld."
"f you plan on sticking with 3.5 and have made that decision" /= "If you have a criticism of 4e then don't post it".
If you are considering moving to 4e, he is saying feel free to post, even if the post is criticism. His point (and one I think is valid) is that "if have made that decision" already to not move over, then there is little point in your continuing to post your criticism (unless it is really new criticism, which is pretty rare).
Because of the existence of this forum, someone who had no intention of switching to 4e would still be forced to post here if they wanted to say something pertaining to 4e. If you wanted to say, "I heard they introduced new feats related to animal husbrandry to 4e, and I don't like that," you could only post that in this forum, whether you intend to adopt 4, stick with 3.5, both, or haven't decided.
Why would you post "I don't like this rule I heard about in 4e" if your motive is "I have no intention at all of playing 4e". It would be like people jumping into a Buffy the Vampire Slayer TV show discussion in the media forum and saying "I heard Buffy sucks, and I have no intention of ever watching it" (use that because it is a real example of something that happened, and got a warning from a mod). What is the point of that? What is accomplished by that?
While I know people are tired of negativity, it is also the case that many people who have criticisms about 4e stuff have also faced a lot of negativity, everything from being called anti-fun to illiterate to a grognard or holdout. And nobody in the less positive camp has asked people who are more positive to stop posting.
Several in the less positive camp have asked people in the more positive camp to stop posting, in this very thread. And in addition, surely you can see that being negative and being positive are not equals in this context. A new product is coming out and a group of people who think they
might decide to use that product want to discuss it. The discussion is not well furthered by a group of people not just being negative about it for the sake of being negative (because they already decided they have no intention of using that new product), but are doing so in a very repetitive manner.
I think anything resembling an intelligent opinion, expressed civilly, has a place. If this forum were specifically "Excited about 4e," you would have a point, and stuff that wasn't excited about 4e could presumably live in another forum. But you can't just have a site and say, "GURPS talk belongs in general, but unfavorable 4e talk does not belong here."
Again the same strawman. NOBODY has said that if you don't post something positive you shouldn't post at all. What's being said is "if you plan on sticking with 3.5 and have made that decision" then please don't repetitively post the same negative things in this forum over and over again. Can't you see the massive different between the strawman of "Only post if you are excited about 4e" and the real position being posited by some folks in this thread?
I think it is a responsibility to respect others with different opinions. If you post in this forum, you should post with an open mind. And when someone replies, you should read with an open mind. While some people have said some really negative stuff about 4e and WotC, they don't speak for everyone with reservations about 4e. And when someone characterizes people who are critical of 4e developments in general and tell them they don't belong here, I don't endorse that either.
If the negative post is constructive, then most people in this thread do not object. If it is the rantings of an angry person with no intention of ever playing 4e trying to inflict their anger over 4e on their peers by repeating the same rant in multiple threads, I don't think that "opinion" deserves the same respect as the constructive criticism from people who are at least open to the possibility that they might play 4e.
I'm not too happy about a lot of 4e stuff. Time and again, I find myself on the other side of people who are excited about it. But that doesn't mean I'm here to hate.
This thread was not personally directed at you. But, surely you know there are some who really are here to express their anger at those who are excited as some sort of cathartic ranting.