Lyxen
Great Old One
That one doesn't seem to include the options from Tasha's. Am I looking in the wrong place? What I'm looking for is whether post-Tasha's there are races that are rated higher than the best option pre-Tasha's.
Not all the guides have been updated, but have a look at this one for example. Quite a few of the races are very much improved by Tasha, and the best options are now all from customised origin (Tortle, for example), whereas the previously strong human variant is no longer interesting, which is extremely significative.
Really, though, what I'm hoping to see someday is data from D&DBeyond comparing pre- and post-Tasha's preferences.
That would assume that they stop being lazy...
In any event, it has become apparent that each of us is product of our experiences, which affects our viewpoint. I've seen the sort of toxic powergamer some people described, but only when I was for a while going to a big weekly Adventurer's League meeting at FLGS. But I don't go to that anymore, so it's not really a problem I have to deal with. My stance on all issues of player toxicity is that changing the rules doesn't change behavior and the only real solution is to not play with those people. But I can understand that if somebody has a really bad experience with a certain type of player it can produce a deeply-rooted emotional reaction to the conditions. (My wife got terrible food poisoning from seafood as a child, and still can't stand the smell of seafood.)
There is that, but there's also the simple thing of making sure that a long term campaign will go smoothly.
In my own group there's one player who always plays a powergamer build that I suspect he's researched, and the difference is clear during combat. However, he never tells other people how they should play, and when the DM overrules one of his shenanigans he immediately and graciously accepts it, with a slight smile that seems to acknowledge that he is pushing the boundaries.
Then it's not too bad a case, but do you think it's normal that there is a clear difference during combat ? I don't, and combat is not even a strong component of our games, but eveyone around the table has got the right to shine equally in all parts of the game.
And he still needs watching, and rulings even though, at least, he is not a rules lawyer.
But this discussion has helped me better understand a range of viewpoints, and for those who were willing to repeat and clarify and discuss without getting angry and accusatory, this has been educational. Thanks.
No worries, and thanks to you for having reasonably thick skin, it helps as well...
