On a different note, I wonder why a person in a coma talking about the gods of faerun would set off alarm bells? A person in coma does talk, and they often talk about things that happened in their life, or things that make no sense to family members. So a gamer, talking about deities from a game he was prepping for while in a coma, is a very real possibility. So I am curious as to why that was suspicious to people.
I can tell you my personal suspicions on the matter TB.
Of all the things that a person could mention clearly (or clearly enough to phoneticize them) while mumbling in their sleep, during a coma,and then have reported on a message board by a person who seems not to be a gamer, and then to present those "relevant to gaming clues" to a gaming community is far from coincidental, it is demonstrably suspicious.
Acceding to some of her stories they were soon to be married and she had children.
Such things would relatively speaking be of far greater concern to the sub-conscious mind of most normal people than a D&D game or campaign.
I have to be honest about this entire affair myself. I enjoy gaming. I enjoying exploring the subject, but only in relationship to what it implies about real life. That is to me gaming, like anything, art, science, religion, etc, is of relative value only to "real life." And I use the term real life in the widest possible application.
If gaming in any way interfered with my family, my livelihood, my health, my friendships, my relationship with God or my fellow man, my scientific interest, my philanthropic pursuits, my inventing, my writings, my casework, my service to my country and community, even my other hobbies, then it would quickly become a casualty of far more important and relevant interests in real life. That being the case if I were in a coma it is hard to image that gaming would be the chief priority of my subconscious any more than it is the chief preoccupation of my waking consciousness or psychological state. I can certainly not imagine if my wife were to hear me mumbling things in a semi-conscious state then the only thing worth reporting would be gaming equivalent phonetic structures, nor can I imagine her saying, "Oh, I wonder if the fellas on the gaming boards he visits would understand what this means?" If I mumbled her name, that would be worth reporting, mumbled my kid's names, that would certainly be worth reporting, spoke about my work or some other important matter, okay... If I mumbled Tiamat or Aboleth or anything like that then that would be meaningless to her, and I doubt very seriously it would be at the tip of the spear in my mind either. Given a state of coma. I doubt she even knows of this board or any of my other internet pursuits, which, truth be told, the internet is really nothing more in most cases than a virtual world anyways, much like gaming itself. I strongly suspect that particular posting (the fake deities) was his way of "disclosing himself," of deliberately leaving clues for the suspicious as to what he was really up to. Much as a criminal or confidence man will often leave clues to see "if anybody else is as smart as I am." It is a sort of game many people who abuse the trust of others pull, it is not good enough merely to deceive, one must deceive to make a fool of and to prove that they are the superior and far more clever man. (Of course other things are possible as to motive and I am still suspicious of one possibility, but, we'll see in time. But the method of operation to me bespoke of a man who thinks he is smarter than most people around him.)
Well, he found out, and now that I am aware of his other confidence activities, and once I discovered this particular event to be a hoax I very much suspected there would be other older and more recent incidents of related behavior, I see he has a long history of leaving counterfeit and confidence clues. I suspect he has a history of "testing the confidence of others" as well.
It is just a suspicion, but the weight of evidence seems to confirm my suppositions and deductions. Along with the deductions of many others. No doubt this was the way he was discovered in this instance, maybe also in other instances.
My personal feeling is that this is the work of a man who spends far too much time living in a fantasy world and who spends far too little time concerned about the way in which his actions are perceived in the real world by real people.
Now that being said I don't want people to think I think gaming is a silly and time-wasting pursuit in and of itself, or that communities like this are by necessity that way either. That is not my point, and I wouldn't bother being here myself if it were. Like any activity it is of relative value to what it contributes to real life. Film, books, games, fiction itself, etc. may all have value for real life as well as "add-on" to the value of real life. But I try to never confuse fantasy or fiction with reality.
And to me this event, and the related events, demonstrate the actions of a man who treats the concerns of others as basically unreal and not really worthy of "real consideration." It seems to me the actions of a man who confuses fantasy with reality, and characters with Character.
That is not necessarily a damning thing in and of itself, but it should be a very real and fair warning to the man about where he is placing his priorities and what kind of constructive, or destructive use, he is making of his "real time."
If he is still able to read these boards, then this is my advice, take it for what it is worth. Get real interests in real life, concentrate your time and energies constructively there, assume that you should treat others in the same way you wish to be treated and just assume everyone else is at least as smart as you are, if not smarter actually (most are smart enough not to pull this kinda thing, aren't they? - if you're really honest about it), and then come back to things like gaming when you understand your best priorities. And the best priorities of others who despite your seeming underlying assumptions probably do have at least as important a set of things to do in real life as to spend their time and energy trying to really assist you when your only real interest is to falsely deceive them.
One last thing I'd like to say.
Even the wisest man or woman can be deceived on occasion.
All of those taken in at any point by the hoax, and until evidence became more plain I was at first, don't feel very bad. Compare your wisdom in being concerned enough to want to help with his level of wisdom in being concerned with wanting to test your willingness to help in a false and self-serving manner. (When he could have been using that energy for some realistically beneficial purpose.)
Then ask yourself who was really duped, and to what end?
He found out something about himself, and he found out something about many of you.
And you found out something about him, and you also found out something about yourself.
If I were keeping score then I'd say many of you rolled a natural 20.
As for him, he gets to keep what he earned.
Now I'm gonna go have some pizza and a beer and toast some of you ladies and gentlemen, and the way you acted.
Gives me hope for my nation, and hope for the world.
Apparently there's a lot more of you out there on the internet than I had supposed. Evening all.