Sounds like an entitled player. Best not invite those.
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Sounds to me like a person who sees things as more than binary.
Currently there is just such a consensus required but it is in the form or "play or not play." i can reject the entire GM and his game if his changes are ones i do not like.
What is being mentioned by seeking consensus on changes to characters is simply opening a middle ground between the binary choice and a recognition of the collaborative game being played.
of course, some might find that concept unacceptable or worthy of tossing around disparaging names.