Except I love the first two Alien films - the second is my favourite movie. And there the bad choices make sense, and are called out. When Dallas breaks protocol, it both makes sense in the story (he's not a scientist, it's his friend), it is immediately called out by Ripley, which establishes a lot about both their characters, and it has consequences make sense, establishing her as the true protagonist of the film.
That's different than a lot of the head scratching moments in this series. As I wrote, I'm still enjoying it, but the writing is keeping it from being great, for me.