Tiefling said:We all understand that a boycott is free and protected speech. The issue is whether it is the right thing to do. I have the right to say a lot of bigotted things, but that doesn't mean it's ethical to do so. You have the right to boycott the BoEF and therefore limit its availability to people who actually want it, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea.
If you think something is immoral, it seems only natural to not support it, i.e. boycott it. So the question certain people have to ask themselves is why is the publication of this book immoral? I have seen several less-than-convincing arguments why the BoEF is a bad idea, but that's different from immorality. I thought New Coke was a bad idea but that was no reason to boycott the entire Coca-Cola company or its distributors.
So why is it immoral?
I don't think it's immoral according to my own personal criteria. I dislike the printing of this book on different grounds. I think D&D should be kid-friendly. My most fond memories of playing D&D were and always will be those games I played when I was in grade school. A BoVD and a BoEF probably won't effect this, but how much more will we see? Valar seems like it intends to publish an entire line of products. I think they have every right to do so, but I also think it's a shame that the game is growing up and moving toward a different audience than to the one with which I associate all of my best memories of the game.
Now, I want to get my kids into gaming. Doing this, I know that they will visit game stores and they might see this product. If I say nothing, it has been implicitly endorsed by me through my support of the industry. If I say something it becomes taboo and exciting and they just get that much more interested. If it is an entire sub-genre of the game it becomes unavoidably linked to D&D and they will check it out no matter what I do. Why do I want to bother with putting myself in that position if I don't have to?
Furthermore, if such products continue to expand in marketshare, it will indeed effect the reputation of the D&D brand. Let's be honest here. For many people, the reputation of White Wolf game players is quite different from D&D players. I have seen comments on this board, others, and talking to people. Whether or not this is right doesn't really matter to me. What matters to me is that I do this for fun, not as a way of life. I also don't care about making a political statement in support of my hobby. Like I said, it's recreation not a way of life, and I don't want people to think of the "other kind of roleplay" when I tell them I play roleplaying games. If the game turns into a big hassle and embarassment for me, and I have to defend myself to in-laws, or worry that my co-workers think I'm into BSDM, then it's no longer fun and I stop playing. There are more important things in life for me to make a political stand on, things that effect life, liberty, death, justice, and the like. Sorry, but D&D is not my battleground.
That's why, despite the fact that I will defend the rights to publish, I really do hope that materials like this do not succeed and proliferate. In all likelihood, nothing will come of it and even the things I worry about will be no big deal. That's fine. I still think that the threat exists though and it makes me uncomfortable. I am opposed to my (fun, remember?) hobby making me uncomfortable. I am opposed to the contents of this press release and by extension pre-disposed against the book as well.