I posted all of the following a page back or so any have yet to see any response. I thought it was fairly well-written. Any comments?
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KaCee said:
...Look, maybe you are everything you are stereotyped to be. But I haven't met anyone yet who lives up to even half of their gender and racial stereotypes.
No, nobody is
everyting they are stereotyped to be, but you are suggesting that stereotypes are
entirely baseless, and I'm saying that they are the way in which we are able to discuss large groups and predict behaviour. It succeeds more often than it fails.
When I say, for example, most of the audience for...pro wrestling... is male, your response (following the logic you've layed out here) should be something akin to...
"No it's not, because--given that women do most of the spending in the world, and the WWF is financially successful--this implies that the audience is not mostly men. Plus, women's tastes are
entirely individual so the fact that the subject matter is designed to appeal to men means nothing."
Your theory also fails to take into account that if you open your eyes and look around at a Pro wrestling event you are seeing mostly men...evidence I find compelling (if anecdotal)
Sure, I know women who are obsessed with shoes and shopping, but some of them hate babies and don't care how their butt looks in those pants.
But if you take a larger sample group than "women you know" fairly obvious patterns emerge. Christ, the examples you list above (Shoes, Shopping, Babies and Butt-Size) would appear on the list of "typical female concerns"...
you obviously recognize them as such even as you dismiss two of them.
Why Shoudn't the rest of the world recognize them?
The point is, you can't take these multitudes of generalizations and use them to describe diverse groups. You can try and you'll be right once in awhile by chance...
By chance? Just sheer random luck?
I'll stick by my notion that you can predict the genral preferences of large groups and wait for my senses and experiences to tell me different.