rangerjohn -
There are two very minor things I noticed on second look at your character. First, your dying should start at -2, not -3. Second, your damage with a longsword should be d8+3 (+2 from Str and +1 from nat swordsman). The Bond with Item feat's +1 bonus only conveys to the act of using the item (ie, to-hit if used on a weapon), not to damage. I'm assuming that's where you were getting the extra +1 from. If that makes the feat less appealing, you're still welcome to change it.
On the upside, the Bond with Item feat can be changed to a different item at a later time. If I recall correctly, you just have to spend a day in ceremony with the new item. When this happens, however, the previously bonded item is destroyed.