Big or Small?

[Ranger REG]

Before I start I want to say a few things, that I'm only being curious I don't want this to look like I'm objectifying anyone, and that I in no way want things to get personal or make things dogmatic (i.e. this view is 'correct'). Now that blurb is done with:

What 'size' do you look for in the opposite sex? (with out saying personality counts more, because whilst it does, that wasn't in the question )

I go for women who would be described as plus sized. Although I was shocked to find out that 'plus sized' starts at 14. Perhaps, Plus Plus size would describe my interests more. Not sure. And height-wise I don't know either, Short or tall =/

Anyone else care to share?

Without sounding selfish, I don't like obese. There should be only one wide-load waddler in a couple relationship and I owned that one.

OTOH, I don't like bone-skinny. I don't want to break her between my fingers, nor crush her under my weight.

 

[Tinker Gnome]

This thread is made of epic win!

As for me...taller than I am.

 

[Dannyalcatraz]

Ranger REG Post #11 this thread...QFT.

 

[Jeremy757]

Im with Dannyalcatraz on this, if I feel like they are going to reinforce my bad habits then I won't go out with them. Other than that my only real stipulation is that she has to look like a woman. Her hips should be wider than her waist but not wider than her shoulders.

Plus her boobs need to be bigger than mine.

 

[papastebu]

I stopped actually "looking" ten years ago, this month. But as far as eye-candy is concerned, if a woman is physically-fit--not hard-bodies, necessarily, but that's not bad--with good, feminine curves, and between 5'9" and 5'0, then she looks good, to me.
Back when I was running around and acting stupid(er), I always went for tiny women, very petite, but still curvaceous for their size. OT, redheads w/freckles were a plus, but now, any girl that strikes me as pretty is good for girl-watching.

 

[Ferret]

Ferret, I can relate. To be perfectly honest, I like my women to look like women. Breasts, Hips, the whole nine yards. A 'woman' that measures 14", 14", 14" looks more like a twelve year old boy, and if that was what I was into, well, they have shows about that and I would be doing time.... :\ *shudder*

Yeah, I know what you mean. I've hugged someone once and exclaimed "You're really thin!" without thinking, good thing they took it as a compliment!

Someone said they didn't like obese, but to be honest I would be happy (If I wasn't already in a relationship ) with Rosie of AC/DC fame

Rather cool to hear everyone's thoughts and feeling on this.

 

[Pbartender]

"Healthy".

Neither obese nor emanciated is healthy.

 

[jonathan swift]

Soccer/Rugby players? What, that's all I've ever dated.

 

[Ferret]

Nothing wrong with that, at least you know they are fit

 

[Nyaricus]

I'm a bit of a shorter guy - 5'6" and 200 pounds (mostly muscle, bit of chubb I'm working off still, haha ) - and I prefer to keep with woman who, if they so choose to wear heels, aren't going to be taller then me. I've always liked shorter woman regardless of my actual height, so anything from 4'10" to 5'5" is alright in my books.

For body type, I'm really not that picky - they simply have to look good in their skin (I've dated girls who were 5'2" and ~150 Ibs, and 5'4" and ~115 Ibs). But they have to have an ass. That is a definite prereq, haha.

As for inter-racial dating, well I dated a Spanish girl for 2+years and I'm quite open to it. I am making a motion to date more to type now, since I've had bad luck dating opposites as of late.

cheers,
--N