Thomas Shey
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If suggesting different games that have better support for a concept is going to be considered tone-deaf because it offends people that only every want to hear about D&D, then, well, I'm for this kind of tone-deaf advice.
It isn't, however, about you. If someone asks how to do X in Y system, being told to use Z system is tedious as all hell. Its not the question asked, and its pretty much absolutely unhelpful in most cases. And that's just as true if the practical answer to the question is "poorly".
Point in fact, this is a public board -- the OP is not the only one being served by post. Perhaps the OP doesn't care for the advice, but a reader might discover something they did not know and go on to learn some more games and/or have a good time. The idea that the OP is the only set of assumptions that matters is, to me, the more tone-deaf argument.
So your opinion on the matter is more important than what the original poster is asking for? That's a position, all right.