Vraille Darkfang
First Post
d20 fool,
I live in Columbia. but did my internship at KBRPC (I hate route-13) in Clinton & went to High School in Warrensburg & later to college at CMSU. Having lived for over 10 years (age 15-27) in your region (and having many friends who have lived their ENTIRE life in small town MO (smaller than Clinton even) I have this to say.
ARE YOU CRAZY!!!!
You're lucky. I grew up around small town education boards. You tick off the wrong parent & you are gone. If you are local (lived there most your life) you might be OK as you are considered a member of the community, not some stranger bringing weird ideas (like D&D, tolerance, NOT drinking beer while hunting deer). That last one is very, very real people. I know at least three farmers that paint "COW" on their cattle every year during deer season. They still lose a few every now & again. I'm NOT kidding.
Back to topic. I've not lived in Clinton but commuted there for over a year & knew a lot of people at CMSU from Clinton. D&D is still on the level of sacrificing house pets to Satan for some people around there. I don't want to stereotype them as inbred, intolerant, ignorant hicks. They aren't inbred, most aren't intolerant, and many are not ignorant. But some are.
I've BEEN a student in the situation you are describing. Don't throw your career away. I KNOW Clinton. It is more open minded than many small towns in MO, but that isn't saying a lot.
Now my advice. Not as a lawyer. Not as a Teacher. Not as a Roleplayer. But as someone who grew up in the Clinton-Warrensburg Area & my view as a teenager there.
I would have loved to know about D&D & roleplaying in general. (I never learned about it until my freshman year at Rolla). There were many things I never learned about in Warrensburg High School (anime, philosophy, art, etc). Prevailing religious & political views limited my development as a human being, but also made me the person I am today. Don't let everyone else prevent my growth. But, don't risk your own neck so I know what a d20 is.
There's my view.
Here's the real advice (from somebody who KNOWS the town).
1. Playing in a Public place. In Clinton MO. I think I know every public place in Clinton & I doubt any of them would take politely to a D&D game. (you'd get an old lady calling the cop. OK, they do have more than one). You might find someplace downtown that wouldn't mind. Some kind of new-age shop, but I don't remember any. Don't play in public in Clinton.
2. Permission slips. I know about teenage rebellion in small town MO. You know about it too. You know the high school kids in your game, you know how they feel about their parents. You know how the mother & her son react to each other. From what you said, I doubt permission slips really are what you need. A family counsellor is more likely to make headway.
3. Kids got to fly on their own. All the high school kids need to form a group of their own and play at one of their parents' houses. Let them & their parents compromise amongst themselves. If they want to role-play they can do it by themselves, play videogames, read novels, or even play by e-mail. Or they can wait till they go to CMSU & find all the gamers & student lounges they want.
4. If you need more players, try to find them at CMSU. Used to be an official RPG club on campus till it got disbanded (long story, but it involves trying to put on a Con on campus & money). Big mess, but as far as I know there no longer is one source for finding players at CMSU. But they are there. I know several that are still there. The drive from Clinton to Warrensburg isn't too bad. You could easily make a Sat or Sun game at CMSU. You might even find players willing to drive down to Clinton.
There, advice from someone who's been there (by there I mean Clinton MO).
Vraille Darkfang
Yes, CMSU has a giant red ass as its mascot.
I live in Columbia. but did my internship at KBRPC (I hate route-13) in Clinton & went to High School in Warrensburg & later to college at CMSU. Having lived for over 10 years (age 15-27) in your region (and having many friends who have lived their ENTIRE life in small town MO (smaller than Clinton even) I have this to say.
ARE YOU CRAZY!!!!
You're lucky. I grew up around small town education boards. You tick off the wrong parent & you are gone. If you are local (lived there most your life) you might be OK as you are considered a member of the community, not some stranger bringing weird ideas (like D&D, tolerance, NOT drinking beer while hunting deer). That last one is very, very real people. I know at least three farmers that paint "COW" on their cattle every year during deer season. They still lose a few every now & again. I'm NOT kidding.
Back to topic. I've not lived in Clinton but commuted there for over a year & knew a lot of people at CMSU from Clinton. D&D is still on the level of sacrificing house pets to Satan for some people around there. I don't want to stereotype them as inbred, intolerant, ignorant hicks. They aren't inbred, most aren't intolerant, and many are not ignorant. But some are.
I've BEEN a student in the situation you are describing. Don't throw your career away. I KNOW Clinton. It is more open minded than many small towns in MO, but that isn't saying a lot.
Now my advice. Not as a lawyer. Not as a Teacher. Not as a Roleplayer. But as someone who grew up in the Clinton-Warrensburg Area & my view as a teenager there.
I would have loved to know about D&D & roleplaying in general. (I never learned about it until my freshman year at Rolla). There were many things I never learned about in Warrensburg High School (anime, philosophy, art, etc). Prevailing religious & political views limited my development as a human being, but also made me the person I am today. Don't let everyone else prevent my growth. But, don't risk your own neck so I know what a d20 is.
There's my view.
Here's the real advice (from somebody who KNOWS the town).
1. Playing in a Public place. In Clinton MO. I think I know every public place in Clinton & I doubt any of them would take politely to a D&D game. (you'd get an old lady calling the cop. OK, they do have more than one). You might find someplace downtown that wouldn't mind. Some kind of new-age shop, but I don't remember any. Don't play in public in Clinton.
2. Permission slips. I know about teenage rebellion in small town MO. You know about it too. You know the high school kids in your game, you know how they feel about their parents. You know how the mother & her son react to each other. From what you said, I doubt permission slips really are what you need. A family counsellor is more likely to make headway.
3. Kids got to fly on their own. All the high school kids need to form a group of their own and play at one of their parents' houses. Let them & their parents compromise amongst themselves. If they want to role-play they can do it by themselves, play videogames, read novels, or even play by e-mail. Or they can wait till they go to CMSU & find all the gamers & student lounges they want.
4. If you need more players, try to find them at CMSU. Used to be an official RPG club on campus till it got disbanded (long story, but it involves trying to put on a Con on campus & money). Big mess, but as far as I know there no longer is one source for finding players at CMSU. But they are there. I know several that are still there. The drive from Clinton to Warrensburg isn't too bad. You could easily make a Sat or Sun game at CMSU. You might even find players willing to drive down to Clinton.
There, advice from someone who's been there (by there I mean Clinton MO).
Vraille Darkfang
Yes, CMSU has a giant red ass as its mascot.