dwayne
Adventurer
I would rule as both are other wise engaged in the grapple that both are at a disadvantage on saves, unless the grapple is ended which could be a reactionary action or the one who wins uses the other as a shield then he would have advantage and the other would not or both could decide to end it and dodge the blast and normal saves. I think it is open to the DM to decide but this feels like the best way for me and well with in the spirit of the rules as I see them.