To answer the question in the subject - Fight for Fun. I hate it hate it hate it when a DM gets the "DM vs. Players" attitude. That's the one thing that has made me actually leave a group. I do realize that's just my preference though as both player and DM. It's like mustard. I hate mustard to the very pits of my stomach and hope to raise my kids the same way. It's a nasty icky thing. But if someone wants to eat mustard, it's their preference and I'm not stopping them.
However, as to the situation at hand I suppose a CDG is justified. I probably would have played up the drama as much as possible (making it apparent that the creature was going to CDG, giving the characters a chance to react and try to valiantly save the PC - successful or not, that's some dramatic gaming). And from then on, the PCs would watch each other's backs a lot more, which again adds to the drama and fun for everyone, even if another CDG never comes up again.
But, we have a very low mortality rate in our campaigns. However, everyone in the group is still good at fearing tough challenges and realizing they could still be deadly. Despite having only 1 PC death maybe every other campaign, they have never gotten the "Oh, he'll never kill us" attitude which definitely helps. I just love my group!
However, as to the situation at hand I suppose a CDG is justified. I probably would have played up the drama as much as possible (making it apparent that the creature was going to CDG, giving the characters a chance to react and try to valiantly save the PC - successful or not, that's some dramatic gaming). And from then on, the PCs would watch each other's backs a lot more, which again adds to the drama and fun for everyone, even if another CDG never comes up again.
But, we have a very low mortality rate in our campaigns. However, everyone in the group is still good at fearing tough challenges and realizing they could still be deadly. Despite having only 1 PC death maybe every other campaign, they have never gotten the "Oh, he'll never kill us" attitude which definitely helps. I just love my group!
