AnotherGuy
Hero
I can understand both PoV.That's just not enough for me to have fun, as a DM or a player. I've never been so attached to a PC that I can't accept the possibility of their defeat, even to the point of long-term injury or death. Seriously, I just make another one. But my players seem to take real danger and the possibility of loss personally. It's very frustrating.
As a forever DM I feel the same way when I play.
Currently I'm playing a bard modelled after Chris O'Donnell's D'Artagnan in '93's The Three Musketeers who quotes lines from famous movies to irk my friends. I love the character but I've accepted he's brashness is likely to see him killed absent a Disney safety-net. And that is ok.
I'm also a fan of the characters created by my players and I do my best to balance (a) my bias as a friend and a fan of their backstories which I wish to explore and merge with the main storyline with (b) the consequences of lethality which must of course be present in a game of D&D, IMO.
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