eyebeams said:
Except that one of us did not try to exploit the other.
"exploit" is about motivations. What in his side of the story are you saying is in factual error?
You could call it that. I might call it, "something I would have called the cops about eventually if I'd lived in the same region as Neal." You just don't seem to understand the severity of the situation.
I understand exactly, but you don't seem to understand that your personal vendetta is just that. For me at least, it's gone beyond "getting the facts out there" and into "trolling a publisher". I'm not saying you're wrong for never working for the guy again, or that you should like the guy, or that when his name comes up you shouldn't say "we had a bad business deal" with some details, but at this point it's just a dead horse with a side of sour grapes.
And here, you continue to really, really not get it. I wonder how often I have to say this:
Why do you always have to be 100% right? If someone only agrees with you 90%, why must you act like this?
Do you get it yet? Do you understand that if I take something you write, transfer it to .pdf without telling you and sell it, it's tatamount to stealing something you own and fancing it? Can you yet comprehend that the only reason Neal's actions are not criminal is because I was nice enough to offer him a way to avoid being a crook?
Did I steal from you? If not, then why must you treat everyone like they're attacking you?
Try this, he didn't steal from you. He didn't find your material and use it. You submitted material and he used it without a deal being reached and without timely compensation. You continue to try to elevate it beyond a contract dispute, like he raided your house, kicked your dog and abused you. Others of us just don't see it as being that severe.
It sure is easy for Neal to be humble. Those words are a small price next to a token fee and four years of sales, aren't they?
He admitted to everything, I don't see "humble". It may not have been a tearful apology on his knees, but he admitted to guilt. How long ago was this? The impression I get is that he's regretful and you're spiteful, so if my posts seem slanted towards his side, that's why. In this situation, he was totally wrong and he admits it. You have no claim to the four years of sale, you ended the negotiations. You should have stuck to your guns and you could now be claiming he never paid you.
If you really believe that politeness more important than an ethical imperative to avoid lying, stealing or cheating, I have nothing in common with you.
strawman.
I'm not talking about what he did, or what you did. This is a thread about public perception and it's effects on purchases. If you are continually abrasive and abusive to other peoples opinion, it will affect things. For your above statement to be true, I'd have to be buying his products because he was a polite theif, and that's simply not true.