I am starting to get the sense that yes, it is in fact me that has lost touch. 9After all, the reason I come to message boards is to bounce ideas and read opinions, maybe even changing my own perspective -- wierd, I know, but there you are.)
I think maybe the "D&D Player" of today isn't me -- it is one of the guys I game with who loved pouring through Complete X to find just the right combo of abilities, the guy who runs the annual PvP tournament, the one who counts beans to make sure the party is at wealth-by-level.
And that's why I am upset. I want the D&D that is fresh and new on the bookstore shelf to appeal to me, and it doesn't. That sucks. I have been a D&D players and buyer for 22 years, and that's ending in May of 2008. Will I still play D&D? Sure -- I will probably play 4e even, because aformentioned bean-counter will run it and I like playing with my friends. But I'll be running old-school (1e, 2e -- hell, even 3.0 core-only was "still D&D") games and I won't get to run games for the group with bean-counter in it. i won't get to have new books that get me all excited.
Because, whether D&D needs to appeal to the mainstream or not, it (the new face of D&D) doesn't appeal to me.