I don't deserve free money for nothing. Nobody deserves free money for nothing.
I was born in a state-funded hospital, and educated in state-funded schools and universities. If I'm lucky, in thirty years I'll draw on a state-funded pension. Unless I'm hit by a bus, or otherwise die suddenly, it's likely the end of my life will be under state-funded care. If I lose my job, or I become too ill to work, I'll again be reliant on the provision of the state.
In exchange for this, in the middle section of my life I pay significant taxes that go to fund all those things
for other people. When my time comes, it will be
other people who pay the taxes to fund all those things for me.
We're all connected. That "free money for nothing" is an illusion - it's free money for the expectation that people will contribute at some other time. And while there will, inevitably, be some people who game the system and become net recipients through their lives,
most people will be net contributors - and they must be, because otherwise the whole thing will come crashing to a halt.
The extreme poor should be helped out and taught how to get back on their feet, though.
That's nice in theory, but in practice it doesn't work. It's called the poverty trap, where a person who is extremely poor finds that as soon as they start digging themselves out of it they find all the systems work against them - if their earnings go above
this threshold then their benefits disappear, while if they go above
that threshold then their debts must be paid back, and so on. With the net effect that they're better off
not digging themselves out of poverty - because they
could slave away for five years for no benefit, or they could do nothing, enjoy the free time that results, and have the same standard of living for those same five years.
Were I to be given something I don't deserve by the government, which has to use taxes to do it, I would feel like a burden. I would be a burden. Do it for the whole country and the entire country is a burden. Are they all a burden equally? Yes.
No. If I receive 800 euros a month from the government but I pay 1,000 euros a month in taxes, I'm still a net contributor to the system.
I don't know how they do it there, but here in California food stamps haven't been stamps in years. It's been a card that gets swiped like everyone else's card. If you're humiliated by doing what everyone else is doing, then getting the same free money everyone else is getting is not likely to change that.
In the case of California, the humiliating bit will be going to get the card in the first place and/or going to get it loaded with the 'free' money. And, yes, some people would rather starve than be thought of as being so poor as to need that handout.