I am 110% all for EVERYONE having perfect equality regardless of gender, ethnicity, religion, or sexual orientation. What I am not for are people blaming me, even if it's indirectly, because of the color of my skin, for offenses I took no part in. If you want me to treat you fairly and with respect, DO NOT insult me by blaming me for things I had no part in.
I am all for equality as well. However, I feel its important to point out that I have never felt blamed for slavery. The United States as a country is to blame for the history of slavery in the U.S. The country probably should make some manner of reparations for that, even if it comes in the form of things like interest free housing or education loans.
All racism, from both sides, should be handled the same. How about that as a first step towards equality.
Sure, but let's start with the stuff that is resulting in actual death and the ruining of lives first. Let's start by repealing mandatory minimums, by creating a single punishment for using all illegal drugs instead of harsher punishment for crack and lighter punishment for coke because of the urban/white-businessman divide (I would prefer simple legalization or decriminalization, but that's probably not going to happen any time soon).
Also the media only promotes more racism. If a black cop shoots a white kid it's never labeled the same as if a white cop shoots a black kid. The media always makes it a point to emphasize the fact that the white person killed the black person and that their skin color is important some how. However if a black guy kills a white guy it's simply "a guy killed a guy."
I agree with you that the media promotes more racism, but I have only ever see it work in the reverse of what you described:
1) A white guy shoots up a school or a planned parenthood and he's a disturbed individual and not a terrorist.
2) A kid brings a homemade clock to school for his engineering club and he's immediately a terrorist because of his skin color and his name.
3) An unarmed black kid is shot by a vigilante-wanna-be who was told by the police not to follow the kid and gets off scott free when he shoots the unarmed kid.
4) A cop shoots a black guy and the black guy died "while resisting arrest."
5) A black guy shoots anyone and it's automatically "gang activity is suspected" while it's an "accidental discharge" when a white guy shoots someone.
Now that's not to say there aren't people who exacerbate these issues: for example, maybe there was a time when he was helpful, but Jessie Jackson only seems to make things worse when he shows up. But, real activists often get conflated with those people so they can be dismissed by the media.