Gaming and your Significant Other

How does your significant other feel about you playing RPGs?

  • They games too!

    Votes: 164 48.1%
  • They know and are okay with it.

    Votes: 147 43.1%
  • They know and disapprove.

    Votes: 23 6.7%
  • They don't know.

    Votes: 7 2.1%

The Shaman said:
I managed to get my wife to play d20 Modern by tapping her interest in shows like The X-Files, Millenium, and Alias, and she's enjoyed it very much - right up until I killed her character a couple of weeks ago.

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This is her first character death - she's not taking it well.
A few more of those and she too can be a Real Man. ;)
 

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My wife games with me, and I'm the luckiest SOB... :)

I met her through a mutual friend who was in one of my gaming groups. As our marriage has progressed (13 years now), she's gone from an occasional player to one of the most hardcore RPers I know. And, she pushes me to write better adventures (if I write a hack-and-slasher, she gets on my case for writing boring stuff...)
 

Wy wife games with me, sometimes. She is a much more casual gamer than I am, but she does enjoy it when she is willing to play, and understands that I like it a lot more and want to play more often than she does.
 

My wife plays, but never in my regular twice-monthly group. Usually she only plays when her brother's over from USA and I run an adventure for the two of them.
 

Yes

My boyfriend gets it. In fact, he games himself, although we dont game together. Too much hassle and politics with SOs in the same game with each other.
 

When my wife and I met she had already been gaming in gradeschool so that worked out great. We have been married 12 years now and gaming is a central point in our relationship.

She started DMing myself and our two boys a couple of months ago and really enjoys it.
 

Actually, Mrs. Noah's fine with me missing RL stuff for gaming if my gaming plans were made before the RL stuff. Unless it's a real emergency or a once-a-year type thing. But then we usually have the once-a-year things on our calendar so I usually don't double-book myself...
 

I met my wife Katy in high school and she knew I ran role playing games then (I was also superjock football stud and tennis player so I was well rounded, now I'm just round ;) ). That was 20 years ago and she has always accepted and encouraged my play. I don't think she really understood the game until about seven or eight years ago when she discovered beads. She doesn't herself care much for role-playing (outside of the bedroom) nor do I much care for beads (not going to repeat myself) but we are glad we have each other and the hobbies we love.
 


To bring in the missing female viewpoint here, I started gaming because my fiancee games, and it's now a major social activity for both of us. That's where I met all of my current friends.

There are two other couples in our gaming group, and the wives don't have any problem with the husbands gaming without them. The guys are involved in some games that the women just aren't interested in. But the wives are also avid gamers themselves, their tastes just aren't as broad as their husbands'.

I have seen the other side of the coin, though. One of my friends recently married and his wife doesn't really like his gaming. In fact she doesn't like anything he does that doesn't directly involve her. She has no friends of her own and wants him to be all her social activity. She's getting better, but I still think she'd prefer it if he just spent every waking moment with her and dumped all his friends. :(
 

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