What does it say about me who says MAY-lee.
You don't apply the vowel-consonant-vowel rule... and mix classical and modern English vowel pronunciationss in the same word.
My preferred is may-lay (equal stress), or the variant on the French, which is closer to meh-LAY or muh-LAY, at least according to the Qebecois, Cajuns, and Creoles I've known say it.
Then again, I also usually prefer to see it spelled in English with diacritics,
melée, witch makes it mee-LEE. (vowel-consonant-vowel rule, double e rule, acute accent denotes stressed syllable when not 1st. The diacritic French being mêlée...
I hate French orthography, but once you learn the "dozen oh's" (o, ou, eau, eaux, etc...), it's mostly consistent.