Maxperson
Morkus from Orkus
So if the results of rolling are unfair, because they are unequitable, then all games are just plain inherently unfair. Take Monopoly. We all use the same rules and start out with the same money and same dice, but if I get good properties and you don't, that's unfair because I have advantage over you. Chess is unfair if I take your queen and still retain mine.The last game I played that used point buy we had 1 PC that won the lottery and had a couple of 18s and a low of 14. My wife had a single 14, a 10 and everything else below. The results of rolling were anything but fair and equitable. What made it worse was that we had asked to use point buy - even if that meant that on average they would be worse. After the dice were rolled and she asked once more, the DM just laughed and said something along the lines of "Too bad." We ended up quitting the campaign because of this and a few other reasons.
That's not how it works. So long as we are all starting on the same level playing field and use the same rules, it's fair no matter how it turns out. The results of rolling in the game your wife played were absolutely fair. They just weren't equitable.