How has gaming helped me...
Oddly this is something i've considered much over the years...and if it wasn;t for all the positives i'm sure i'd have left the hobby years ago, but as things stand i'd say the positives list as follows;
1. Better knowledge of History (weapons, armor, geography, siege weapons, cultures, languages and so on)
2. Increased vocabulary (seriously think of all the obscure words you know now, which without roleplaying you may never have heard of let alone used)
3. improved social skills (Mixing with friends, students, and other gamers)
4. Vastly improved Imagination (Crafting a campaign, or adventure)
5. Literary development (writing stories, providing descriptions etc.)
6. Acting and Drama Developments (playing NPC's, giving them realism and voices)
7. Increased Creativity (handouts, maps, and so forth)
8. Improved ability to plan, and coordinate events and groups of people.
9. Improved Phone skills (seriously think of all those tricky take away orders you have had to take care of <G>)
10. Improved Computer Skills (spreadsheets, keyboard skills, layout, template design, databases, art software....etc)