But unless the specific monster entry lists a spell specifically as working in a certain way it DOESNT WORK. Because the entry for ALL GOLEMS says so.
Very few summoned monsters can even scratch the paint of a decent golem. They mean nothing but meat shields in combat and accomplish nothing against it but buying you time.
What else do you have?
Why is the wizard ever in any danger from a golem? Fly.
Resistance to damage? Summon lantern archons. Same level as black tentacles so it should be fair game for this discussion, right? With ~8 rounds of blasting, 2 or 3 archons will eliminate a golem, maybe 4 if you're unlucky. The golem will never hit the archons either since they can fly.
Even if you try to ignore the 3.5 FAQ/SRD and change the rules to fit your own interpretation, a group of wizards can still fairly effortlessly beat a golem.