I mean, other than ignoring them or whatnot.

The thing is, I'm currently in a group of AD&D 1e players, and enjoying it, but I'm trying to get them to try 3.0 (which I love). They respond very similar to the poster below (who posted this rant recently on RPGnet).
What's an intelligent response? To say, "It ain't the game, it's the player" or something like that? Because the truth is, I also hate the "Blah blah Optimum Build" crap, because it *does* remind me more of M:tG or a video game. But I still love 3.0.
Here's the post from RPGnet:
Why do I hate D&D 3.0/3.5? It's because of this kind of crap (quoted from another thread):
"The Spiked Chain Fighter Build"
The core of the build is having Improved Trip. The spiked chain is a reach weapon, so you have to leave a threatened square to get next to the wielder to attack in melee. The provokes an attack of opportunity, which is used to trip. When the person gets up that provokes another attack of opportunity - by the rules you can't trip with this attack, but some people do it anyway. With any luck the enemy will never get a full attack on you and you'll be giving out a bunch of extra hits outside your turn though the AoOs. This is a battlefield control build, not a direct damage one.
You'll obviously want spiked chain proficiency to do this. Then Combat Expertise and Improved Trip. A human fighter can take all three of these at first level. Since you rely heavily on attacks of opportunity the feat Combat Reflexes is also very useful. Then you get into extras like Improved Disarm, Weapon Focus and Specialization. I'm sure there are a ton of people around who can recite the exact feats required and the order to take them in. It helps to have a wizard to cast Enlarge Person on you because that both increases your reach and makes tripping people easier. Carry a few spare weapons so when you fail a trip attempt you can just drop the weapon and draw a new one.
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Good Lord. It's not an RPG. It's friggin' Magic: the Gathering. It's a friggin' video-game. It's Halo. It's Street Fighter II (some of you old-timers remember *that* craze in the arcades ).
I hate it.