Johnnie Freedom! said:I don't have a "die hard gaming group of five friends who have been with me for ten years", unlike many of you. So recruiting new players is always a concern in the back of my mind. :\
Me neither. I've DMed a whole range of people, from close friends to friends of friends, to near strangers who heard from someone at work that I was running a game. What they all have in common, unlike people with too much time to vent on the internet, is that their priority is to play in an RPG. Much further down the list is griping whether or not AoOs make any sense - or the typical kinds of stuff that the internet seems to breed easily.
Hows this - try posting on this message board something to the effect of: "Hey, everything's cool with me. I like a lot of different games and don't care much what I play." That sort of silent majority is not well-represented on the internet.