You personally don't think that is fun.Fair enough. You like mundane fantasy with Joe average characters. That sounds staid and not fun at all but if you have a group of players that has buy-in on that (and I mean actual buy-in not assumed or forced buy-in) then that means you and your group are having fun. This is good. It is not the baseline of D&D since 2E but one thing that is good about RPGs: they can be customized to taste.
Stop telling me that the games that I have fun playing aren't fun.
Why is story important? Is playing D&D about telling a story or about having adventures? I don't want the outcome prewritten. It is hard to explain but as a DM I don't care what happens. I don't have a story to tell. I don't have any influence. I just present a world and adjudicate it fairly. I will do no less as a DM and I expect no less as a player.Yes. You are correct the average encounter of standard difficulty is not meant to kill the PCs barring really stupid decisions or uniquely ill luck. Instead they are designed to use resources, move the story along, and have the PCs feel like they matter and are accomplishing something in a cinematic fashion like larger than heroes.
I don't understand this criticism. What in the world are you talking about? What does Danny Devito have to do with anything? Explain your argument more clearly.Yes. The character's abilities are important because again not since 2E is the default that the PCs are Danny Devito who just decided one day to adventure. They are a cut above the average person in terms of stats by default. Also, let's be clear; this is not unique to 5E. This has been the default since 3rd edition and people seem to like it despite the very vocal OSR protests.
Wrong.No. Nostalgia is not a hipster fade. Clearly, the OSR who look at back at 1E/2E style games with rose colored glasses are nostalgic. In their nostalgia they forget the numerous house rules and outright ignoring of the rules that a lot of groups (I would dare say the majority) had to make the game playable and enjoyable.
If you look at old school games as an adult in the modern time, you see a different style of D&D. Maybe you don't understand it, but it is just as valid as any game you play now. Maybe the rules introduced in B/X are just fine and create a very interesting and intense gameplay. A style of gameplay that can't be achieved with modern D&D but a valid and engaging gameplay nonetheless.
D&D old school works fine for me, thank you. No need for me to go to other games. 5E is fun but it is not always the best option for certain campaigns. You use the tool that best fits your need. If you want high fantasy adventure, 5E is a good choice. If you want a more mortal centric low powered game OSR is the better choice.Cool. You like what you like. I would say survival horror is pretty accurate description however. Have you ever tried games like Warhammer Fantasy Role-play, Zweihander, Hackmaster, and so forth? I honestly think they would be more to your taste.