I feel that way about other stuff (old books, maps, pocketwatches, just not pictures really. I don't like having to pay for fancy art I don't really care about, but it is what it is.
I hear you - and feel somewhat similarly about Spelljammer, because I'd mostly want it for the setting stuff, and have no interest in the slipcase. So I'd much rather have seen a 256-page + hardcover book.
I think this needs to be talked about more. Playing RPGs and collecting RPGs are separate hobbies. There's clearly a lot of overlap, but they're not the same thing. Like playing RPGs and collecting terrain, or collecting terrain and building terrain. There's clear overlap, but they're not the same hobbies.
Add world-building as an over-lapping hobby unto itself (there exist world-builders who don't player RPGs).
It would make for a good thread, I'd say: the "sub-hobbies of RPGs," although to be fair, some are distinct hobbies in their own right (e.g. worldbuilding, miniature collecting, etc). Hmm, maybe later...
I love a well made pen. To paraphrase Mitch Hedberg, I lose pens too much. I bought a twenty dollar pen because I always lose pens and i got tired of not caring.
I mean, not really, I bought a $20 pen because it has a satisfying weight, it writes very smoothly without smearing on the plastic safe drop bags we use at work, doesn't leak, and it fits my preferred aesthetic of dark matte colors along the "cool" side of the color spectrum. Another I got for $10 for work because it has a mini screwdriver built in which I use several times a week to replace the battery in someone's car remote, a touch screen stylus end, and I like the grip and wieght of it. And it came with 3 replacement ink cartridges.
I'm doing research to get a set of very high quality mechanical pencils and pens for at home. I am very picky about pencils and pens, notebooks, etc.
First off, I love Mitch Hedberg (RIP).
Second of all, I know exactly which pen-stylus you're talking about - several companies make it (e.g. Troika). I was looking at that just recently.
But yes, I'm very picky about such things as well, and almost always prefer metal. If you want any suggestions on mechanical pencils, send me a PM - don't want to derail the thread (too much). The reddit page on mechanical pencils is fun to browse, although it likely won't do wonders for your wallet. My favorites that I own are the Kaweco Brass Special and the Caran D'Ache Ecridor. I also love the Kaweco Sketch Up - just a fun chuck of metal.
Another example are notebooks, as you mentioned. I've settled on the Blackwing Slate as my go-to for something I carry around, which is somewhat unfortunate as it is a bit more expensive than average - and far more than the type of cheap notebook you find in drug stores.
I spent around $100 on amythist dice, a handmade dice box that looks like a big book, and a nice little dice holder thing for that dice set. She uses the box and the dice every time we play. Just having it at the table makes her happier. The dice roll well, feel good in the hand, and they're gorgeous.
One of the best things about not being broke anymore, is being able to actually get the nice versions of my favorite things.
My best friend wishes that dnd books had less art in them, and I just can't relate. I doubt I'd ever buy physical copies if they weren't full of good art that evokes exactly what the book is talking about. I love the art in MotM. The image for Deep Gnomes is just wonderful. I want to play that exact character now. The art for Duergar? Oh man I'm gonna use them more than I used to do just because of that art.
I haven't looked at MotM, but I hear you. The aesthetic (and artistic) experience is part of it, which is also why I relate with folks who don't like whatever the latest art trend is. And also why I'm happy when the alt cover of a new D&D book is not to my liking! (e.g. the Spelljammer set), but sucks when I missed out on an alt cover I
do like, but has since risen in price beyond what I'm willing to pay for (e.g. Tasha's).
I mean, I extend this to other hobbies - I like to collect old 1960s-70s mass market science fiction and fantasy novels, because some of the "New Wave" art is just so fun. In general, when I'm looking for an out-of-print book, I look to see what editions exist so I can get the cover that is most aesthetically pleasing to me.