I completely agree. And (slight thread derailment) one thing that drives me crazy in online discussions is the snooty attitude that the roleplaying...which seems to mean, for those people, some form of character acting...is the most important part, and that the purpose of game mechanics is to serve that role, and that anything else is a lesser form of RPGing. Backed up, nose in the air, by the 'proof' that the world 'roleplaying' is right there in the genre!
@#$% that noise.
It's a game, with roleplaying.