love the unloveable

[Mann Gegen Mann]

I don't realy get into love, not that it is a waste of time but beacouse all the girls, most not all of them at my school are snobby.

 

[bento]

Maybe its your spelling?

Take it from a guy who's been married for years - most of us still don't get women (or men as some female posters could say). That's what makes life the rollercoaster it is.

You say they are snobby. Do you keep regular hygenic habits and ask them questions?

Often women say they want someone who's pleasant and they can talk to. How would you rate yourself in these two categories?

 

[jaerdaph]

Do you keep regular hygenic habits...

[observation]Okay, it's kinda scary that is the first thing gamers think to ask other gamers when discussing this topic... [/observation]

 

[Mann Gegen Mann]

To ansure your "rate your self" reply, and hygenic comment, i do keep hygen in tac I'me plesant in a sense, maby a 6.5 talking thow, about a 4. i'me not that good at holding a ... a, I geus common conversatiton. but if it is a debate, i'me good at that.

PS. I,me a vergo

 

[Arkham]

I don't realy get into love, not that it is a waste of time but beacouse all the girls, most not all are snobby.

Maybe you need to find yourself a good man, instead?

 

[bento]

Conversation about innane things (weather, local events, etc.) can be hard. I have this problem with men more than I do with women. Guys I know at work want to talk about sports, which bore me to no end. I keep up on things by browsing the paper every day and going to interesting news sites.

You might do this - find several good introductory topics, like complimenting a woman on her shoes, and then using good listening skills.

I mean by "good listening skills" to look them in the face, nod at appropriate times, and follow up with additional questions and comments. Don't stare though and make sure your questions are about the topic at hand. If they smile and ask you questions, then they are enjoying your company. If you're really good you can ask them out for coffee or a meal at a resturaunt.

Be sure to complement them, but don't go overboard on the flattery. It's also good to have a sense of humor about yourself.

 

[Lewis526]

What it all boils down to is that you have to find someone with whom you share common interests. If you fake interest in something just to get a girl to talk to you, she's likely to see right through your faking. Don't go after "girls." Find a particular girl who will enjoy spending time with you. There's all kinds of women, just like there's all kinds of men.

 

[Ranger REG]

What it all boils down to is that you have to find someone with whom you share common interests. If you fake interest in something just to get a girl to talk to you, she's likely to see right through your faking. Don't go after "girls." Find a particular girl who will enjoy spending time with you. There's all kinds of women, just like there's all kinds of men.

But don't be friends with them. I made that mistake and now they can't see me as boyfriend material. They categorize you.

And don't believe the "lovers come and go, but friends are forever" stuff. It makes you feel like a third wheel. I have already drifted apart from them.

 

[Mann Gegen Mann]

Conversation about innane things (weather, local events, etc.) can be hard. I have this problem with men more than I do with women. Guys I know at work want to talk about sports, which bore me to no end. I keep up on things by browsing the paper every day and going to interesting news sites.

You might do this - find several good introductory topics, like complimenting a woman on her shoes, and then using good listening skills.

I mean by "good listening skills" to look them in the face, nod at appropriate times, and follow up with additional questions and comments. Don't stare though and make sure your questions are about the topic at hand. If they smile and ask you questions, then they are enjoying your company. If you're really good you can ask them out for coffee or a meal at a resturaunt.

Be sure to complement them, but don't go overboard on the flattery. It's also good to have a sense of humor about yourself.

LOL you're funny(i agree but the way you word things is opend to the point it is humorise) i'de do the same thing, however i am still in school, dom't come acros a computer or newspasper to often there.

 

[Mann Gegen Mann]

back at ya

Maybe you need to find yourself a good man, instead?

Maybe you need to find yourself a good man your self, i have girils as freinds but not in the eternel( or even anaywhere close)giril freinds.