It's not monogamous. Here's a quote from Ed Greenwood from the
Candlekeep Forum.
thank you...this was a myth that needed dispeling since I have REPATEDLY been critasized ont his and other forms for calling him out on this...
The reference to the Woodstock era is particularly indicative of where Ed is coming from imo. In the same post he goes on to say -
you know what this pushes him even more into sue terrotriy...and the wishfulfilment part...
(((first a disclaimer I only meet ed once at a convention more then 10 years ago and spoke to him for less the 10 mins at the time))))
I am going to assume (based on world experance although if I am wrong I will pony up to it) that being a kind old role-player with a large beard and aless then stellar body shape (although to be fair he appears to be in better shap then I or half of my D&D group so I do not mean this as a slight, only an opsrevation) I have to belive he does not have supermodel good looking falling all over him. So when ever pic of a femal nude with elminster is supper hot...well I mean you guys can see where I am going with this right...
now just to show the flip side of this coin I do not fault him for this. If I play a bard with an 18 Cha I expect NPC women to oggle me...it is also part of the wishfulfilment...