The tipping point lies where that consideration forces you to overwrite or bury any feelings and-or problems you might have yourself.
Not one person has advocated that in this thread, and none of the tools discussed in this thread are made for that purpose. To use them this way would be
explicitly abusing them and, in fact, turning them
against the purpose for which they were conceived.
I'm also more than a little skeptical that all that many of them could even in principle be used to try to coerce someone to "overwrite or bury any feelings and-or problems" someone else might have, because
the whole point is to ease communication and give a voice to those who struggle to speak because of fear, anxiety, or worries that one would breach the social contract (becoming a "party pooper" or a "wet blanket" etc., etc., etc.) merely for trying to not feel emotionally shredded.
There also seems to be a pattern to this where "I don't want..." is consistently expected/allowed to overrule "We do want...", which (speaking from experience) merely plays into the hands of the selfish.
Where do you see this in this thread?
Because these tools are (explicitly and specifically) designed to only help with "I don't want..." when that desire-against is because it would be
traumatic or
demoralizing or otherwise experience-ruining for the asker, while avoiding or ameliorating whatever the issue is would be of little to no consequence to anyone else.
Raising the specter of possible, theoretical bogeymen as a justification for actively disparaging tools designed to help people be comfortable in their own skin at the TTRPG table is not the best look. It's
excruciatingly easy to dismiss valid, serious issues with "well
maybe someone participating in bad faith could use this as a cudgel to beat people, so nobody should ever be allowed to use it or anything like it." That's not an acceptable argument. If you're going to raise a criticism like this, it needs something more concrete. Just as my example with my cousin who would probably never be able to enjoy a TTRPG game where there are people who burned to death in a fire, because of his childhood traumatic experience with one. (I always tried to be kind to him during the few family reunions where we met. He was a quiet and reclusive boy.) Him saying "I don't want to see horrible burn victims" would not, in ANY way, be some horrific violation of others' rights or preferences.
So. Where does this bogeyman hide? How likely are such issues? Will there actually be more issues with than without the use of some of these tools? Not all tools are valid or appropriate for all contexts, of course, and it's entirely valid to find some or even several to not be to your taste (as noted, I find "consent forms" stuffy and ineffectual). But to dismiss
all of them with a mere "well it's
possible for someone to abuse this, therefore it shouldn't be used" is unacceptable. Unless you're now suddenly okay with the argument that absolute DM authority shouldn't be used because it is
possible for bad-faith DMs to abuse it?