jmucchiello said:
"...Dude, I'm playing in 15 different PbP games..."
WHOA, Nevermind. LOL. I had no idea you were THAT busy. Yeah, notifications for that many games would get too confusing, for sure. I run ONE game, and I play in three others, one of which moves VERY slow.
jmucchiello said:
"...I don't need notifications because I program computers for a living and I'm always on my computer...No phone involved."
Ah, I see now. Agreed. When I am on the computer, I keep my PC version of LINE open in the background, because I can type WAY faster on my laptop than I can on my phone. But I see where you're coming from now. And I know exactly what you mean.
jmucchiello said:
"...In any case, this started over my annoyance that people don't response even if they are active elsewhere on ENWorld. I'm looking for etiquette here. Especially during combat."
Ok, well, my point was that perhaps being able to notify your players via real-time messaging would be helpful. But now that I have a better idea of your situation, all I can say is that I sympathize with you. LOL
That being said, you could just make a post in the Talking The Talk thread for your game(s) implementing a "gentlemen's agreement" for such things; of course, if you're a player, and not the DM, it's more difficult, because instead of implementing protocol, you're simply making a request of others. In such situations, sadly, you have very little control.
Of course, most PbP games I have ever seen have stuff like that posted; usually, they say stuff like, "Players are expected to post at least once every 48 hours," or something to that effect.
jmucchiello said:
"...But email has no expectation of immediacy...An email is "do something with this on YOUR time."
Agreed, as long as you have your email set NOT to push notifications on your phone. But I get what you're saying, even if your phone notifies you of the email, the user sending it usually doesn't expect an immediate reply.
In a related train of thought, I started out doing my PbP stuff (Gameplay and OOC, everything) by email, but the problem I always had is that "reply all" results in a lot of duplicated messages, because each player's reply repeated the message it was replying to. That's why I switched to forum format in the first place.
Having said that, I DO use email to tell players information that the other players wouldn't have an IC way of knowing. Plus, some players don't have forum access on their computers at work due to blocked ports, so they sometimes email me their posts so that I can simply relay them on their behalf on the forum.
At any rate, cheers to you, and I wish you well!