DanMcS said:
I think the real problem here isn't players whining that they want to buy magical items. It's really the DMs whining that they should have ABSOLUTE POWER. You're not the only player, nor the player that matters the most. The game shouldn't be a power fantasy for the DM. If you can't work with your players to give them what they would like, you shouldn't be DMing; it's their game too.
I might be tempted to agree with you, except for one thing:
None of the players cares if I (DM) have fun.
I have been playing RPGs for 13 years. I have had the opportunity to be a player on about a dozen or so occasions. I would like to play. But no one is willing to DM (no one that the rest of the group is willing to play under, at least). So that pretty much gives me absolute power through monopolistic control. In this free market gaming society, the players may feel free to join someone else's game.
As I said, in my experience, players are not there trying to make the DM have fun. So I feel no obligation in facilitating theirs. Their fun is their own responsibility. From the few times I've played, I know that one can have fun playing in almost any type of setting, any level of magic, with any race, with any class, if one tries and is willing to. As long as the game is run well, a player's fun is mostly controlled by their choices to get involved in the game, to role-play, and the decisions they make for their characters. None of that is within my control, and so I don't bother trying.
I like creating worlds and stories, and so that is what I do. If the players can have fun in the setting I create, then great. If not, they wouldn't come back the next week (and occasionally they don't, but they always come back within the next month or two after they've tried playing with someone else or running their own game).
I know this goes against conventional wisdom.
I think DMs should create a union to protect them from overbearing players leveraging their greater numbers and hanging their involvement in the game over their DMs' heads.
