fanboy2000
Adventurer
Here's an idea: take the Society-Noble background in PHB II and use it to make Diplomacy a class skill. Just don't make Cha a dump stat and voila! A fighter decent at Diplomacy. No need to take a feat. (Though as Mustrum points out, you can still take skill training, just like 3e. In fact I'm fairly sure that backgrounds were in 3e to.)In 4e diplomacy isn't a class skill for fighters, nor will your fighter have a very high charisma score, unless you specifically gimp yourself in combat. So you can't really take any class and be as suave as you want. You'll have to settle for 1/2 level and feats while your paladin friend might have +8 more diplomacy than you.
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Maybe 4e lets you have a decent diplomacy more easily, but you have to give up some fighting ability in either edition.
Another route would be to hybrid fighter and rogue, but I prefer the background way.
Very true.Both 3e and 4e tie your class to your out of combat abilities.
Well, many of things that I now associate with 3rd actually started in the Forgotten Realms Campaign Setting. Epic levels, level adjustments, and effective character level are just a few. Also, some of my favorite spell casting feats came from that book. It wasn't until the 3.5 core rulebooks that those things became part of the core rules.[Education is a] feat found in some later supplement. (And I think in fact a feat found in Forgotten Realms books, not "core books"). That is one of the "problems". You can build a lot, if you just know where everything is and how to mix all the things.