Mordane76
First Post
Okay -- here's the story. I apologize up front about the length, but I have a lot of material I need help with... 
My homebrew campaign went on an unfortunate hiatus back in October, when the holidays started to get heavier. I was working a lot; I was shorthanded on employees, and I'm also a full-time student. Now, my schedule has cooled down again, but I have some problems...
First, when we left the story, we were in the middle of a bit of out-of-game turmoil. One, because I was working so much, my pre-game preparation time had been cut completely, so there were points where the game bogged down, and some people enjoyed that slower pace, because it gave time to ask more questions of NPCs. However, others didn't, so there was some stress over this difference. How should I approach this subject? Should I just see if it's all glossed over with time, or should I take steps to countermand it before we start back up?
Second, since it has been almost three and a half very busy months, my memory of the last session is sketchy at best. I don't really remember where we left off in the story, or where I intended to go next. What should I do? Should I pow-wow with the players and try to reconstruct the story from them, or just wing it?
Third, when we left, we were gaming once a week. I'm not sure I want to game once a week again now that we're starting back up, but I also worry that if we don't meet regularly like this, the game won't survive at all. I'd like to game once every two weeks or possibly once every month, mostly because I know how busy my schedule will be with classes, and I have a wife who presently tolerates my gaming, but mostly because it's online PbP, and doesn't take up large, unbroken blocks of time. We also used to game on Saturdays, and I'm not sure that night will be the best night for me this semester. How should I approach this topic?
Fourth, when we stopped gaming, I was having issues with magic items, treasure availability, power creep, and rampant leveling. Many of these issues stemmed at least in part from my lack of pre-planning, but now, the PCs are in the 17-19th level area, and one of them has major (possibly unbalanced) power due to a custom core class and template. I don't blame the player -- the game is a play-test in progress, but the fact of the matter is that it was getting to the point where he could do anything the other characters could, and quite often better than the others as well (so spotlight and challenges became more difficult to manage). How can I best address these issues so that I don't alienate my players, keep it fun for them, and also keep it sane and fun for me?

My homebrew campaign went on an unfortunate hiatus back in October, when the holidays started to get heavier. I was working a lot; I was shorthanded on employees, and I'm also a full-time student. Now, my schedule has cooled down again, but I have some problems...
First, when we left the story, we were in the middle of a bit of out-of-game turmoil. One, because I was working so much, my pre-game preparation time had been cut completely, so there were points where the game bogged down, and some people enjoyed that slower pace, because it gave time to ask more questions of NPCs. However, others didn't, so there was some stress over this difference. How should I approach this subject? Should I just see if it's all glossed over with time, or should I take steps to countermand it before we start back up?
Second, since it has been almost three and a half very busy months, my memory of the last session is sketchy at best. I don't really remember where we left off in the story, or where I intended to go next. What should I do? Should I pow-wow with the players and try to reconstruct the story from them, or just wing it?
Third, when we left, we were gaming once a week. I'm not sure I want to game once a week again now that we're starting back up, but I also worry that if we don't meet regularly like this, the game won't survive at all. I'd like to game once every two weeks or possibly once every month, mostly because I know how busy my schedule will be with classes, and I have a wife who presently tolerates my gaming, but mostly because it's online PbP, and doesn't take up large, unbroken blocks of time. We also used to game on Saturdays, and I'm not sure that night will be the best night for me this semester. How should I approach this topic?
Fourth, when we stopped gaming, I was having issues with magic items, treasure availability, power creep, and rampant leveling. Many of these issues stemmed at least in part from my lack of pre-planning, but now, the PCs are in the 17-19th level area, and one of them has major (possibly unbalanced) power due to a custom core class and template. I don't blame the player -- the game is a play-test in progress, but the fact of the matter is that it was getting to the point where he could do anything the other characters could, and quite often better than the others as well (so spotlight and challenges became more difficult to manage). How can I best address these issues so that I don't alienate my players, keep it fun for them, and also keep it sane and fun for me?