Okay, taking some excerpts here for demonstration'''
Sir, do the words "lead by example" mean anything to you?
If, in the same note, you say that you can understand why folks think you are saying they are having badwrongfun, how can you then say they call you an ass for not liking 4e - you admit that they may well not read you as saying that! If you intentionally engage in hyperbole, you somehow expect folks to read your mind or something? They are going to take you at your word.
The fracturing and anger you are talking about is, ultimately, not WotC's fault. We do it to ourselves, with our collective lack of self control. If you walk into a public forum and spew out your frustration without much control over it, what else could you expect? You are helping to create and sustain the very anger and division that you find sad.
This is something we could all learn from - we have an effect on our fellow posters, and we should consider what that effect will be before hitting the "submit" button.
On the other hand, my original comment was clearly diverging into hyperbole, which is something I occasionally like to have fun with. Mia culpa....
I can understand why someone might think that I'm saying that they're having badwrongfun. That's not where I'm coming from. I occasionally like to vent because of my own frustration with the direction they took the game....
I just find it sad that certain business decisions have led to a fracturing of a very large and formerly very supportive community, and that so much anger and intolerance is leveled at people on both sides of the argument....
I should mention that someone, who will remain nameless (for now) but has a community supporter account, shot me a private message tonight here at ENWorld that consisted of one word: "Ass." So I'm an ass for saying that I don't like 4E? ...
Sir, do the words "lead by example" mean anything to you?
If, in the same note, you say that you can understand why folks think you are saying they are having badwrongfun, how can you then say they call you an ass for not liking 4e - you admit that they may well not read you as saying that! If you intentionally engage in hyperbole, you somehow expect folks to read your mind or something? They are going to take you at your word.
The fracturing and anger you are talking about is, ultimately, not WotC's fault. We do it to ourselves, with our collective lack of self control. If you walk into a public forum and spew out your frustration without much control over it, what else could you expect? You are helping to create and sustain the very anger and division that you find sad.
This is something we could all learn from - we have an effect on our fellow posters, and we should consider what that effect will be before hitting the "submit" button.