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Yeah, so, having read them by myself, I didn't really notice there was sex in the books. I tend to edit that sort of junk out when reading books. Latter, when discussing the book with other people, I've heard Martin's style described as "one-handed typing." It's gross.
I've read them all and honestly I think people are conflating the books and the TV show with the sex stuff. Sure there is some, but there is not a lot of graphic sex in the books. There is mention of it, and rape, but a lot of scenes with play by play of sex? Not that I remember. Of course the show amped the sex scenes up to 20 and characters that had rumors about their sexuality like Oberon Martell and Loras Tyrell are suddenly defined but that. And it loved to have scenes of exposition over two whores getting it on.