Neverwinter won't even let me play as a Barbarian :-( I have a Great Weapon Fighter, but It's just not the same. Also why couldn't just have classes and let me spec into which build I want rather than splitting out subclasses into their own classes. I do give them props for opening up player generated content.
But until I can Barbarian out. I probably won't reinstall it.
I do like DDO, but it is as you've said dated.
I would love for DDO to get a big, game wide overhaul. The graphics don't bother me, but if they can redo the high res texture pack to look more modern, or something like that, I wouldn't complain.
But some of the mechanics of the game are still just...clunky.
As for Neverwinter, I feel your pain. I want literally any other kind of Warlock, a ranged Rogue, AND A DAMN BARD! ahem. sorry. And Druids would definitely get one or two of my friends involved.
And gnomes, for crying out loud! Why do people hate gnomes? They're like Halflings, except not completely worthless! Except better than that. Seriously why do Halfling exist? Is this how other people feel about gnomes? if so, why are you people so wrong? Stop that! Be right with me. It's more fun, I promise.
<grumble grumble>
Also, either game needs some "monstrous" races. And no, drow don't count. DDO especially! it takes place in Eberron, I should be able to play a damn Bugbear! Come on!
Bah!
At least Eberron has artificers, gnomes, and druids these days.
I also agree that Neverwinter should have had to customization, especially early on. I get learning the game with a simple set of options, but let me retrain later, ok? The game is inspired by 4e...the edition with by far the most customization within a class...and I can't choose between even a couple of powers? Really?
Those gripes aside, I can't think of many games I have more fun playing. Especially the Ranger, but also the Rogue, Warlock, even the Wizard is a lot of fun. And I love the world. It's time to expand it, but that is also true of DDO.