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Gnometown Hero
Yes, that's true.To be fair to Raven those things didn't exist for the first 30 years or so of his concept and not for twenty years of him selling.
It's easy to spiral into hopelessness with twenty+ years of struggle.
On the other hand, that makes him a full-blown adult at this point, by any metric.
At some point, one has to take a deep breath in the shower and say "OK, now what?" and start adulting.
That can include letting go of perceived sleights from decades ago, acknowledging one own's part in the failures of the past, or even simply creating a new plan in the current reality. Ideally, all three would be done and are, IMO, the sign of becoming a true adult, but even just taking the last course, the least mature and evolved one, would be progress.
At a certain point, sitting at the bottom of a pit that you had at least a part in digging for yourself, complaining about being in a pit becomes a problem that no one else's responsibility but your own.