Iron will is always good for fighters.
After choosing that why don't you take a talk with the dm. From the tidbits you have disclosed is seems you have different expectations from the game and that causes you problems.
If you explain what you expect from the game and the dm does the same there is a chance that you can find some middle ground.
After choosing that why don't you take a talk with the dm. From the tidbits you have disclosed is seems you have different expectations from the game and that causes you problems.
If you explain what you expect from the game and the dm does the same there is a chance that you can find some middle ground.