And yet it seems a good chunck of american males consider it their right or even responsibility to 'hurt' females they are dominant over.
Ok. Obviously, you don't know much about domestic abuse. Fact is, most men who beat their wives blame their wives, often saying "you make me do this."
They do it for control reasons, but also because society has taught them to stifle their emotions.
And as far as being "dominant".... well there's two sides to that coin, baby
Can we get a little bit of middle ground between men who think women are tiny fragile flowers who's deaths are a massive tragedy and those who think women are property whose deaths can be kinda erotic?
Uh, can we get you to talk about more than 2% of the male population??
But then there's the scarey part - what if some of them are the same men... oh wow, some are...
The protectiveness you feel, and the inferior social position it leads to are not protecting women. I'm not attacking you personally, or saying that you are complicit in domestic abuse, but considering the rates of domestic violence amoung military families, isn't the old "it would destroy moral to see a woman hurt" thing kinda... weird? Not neccassarily untrue, just indicitive of some serious bipolar attitudes?
I'm not sure what the rate of domestic abuse in military families is, but I know the top two are not military, they are Police Officers and religious leaders.
Perhaps millitary is #3. But then, we need to look at the whole picture too. Remeber, two sides of the coin. Why do so many women who like aggressive, dominating men marry into the military??
Or maybe you've never thought about it like that before.....
I hate to say it, but this line removes any respect or attention I might give to the rest of your post. It is simply beyond the pale of useful discussion to make that absolute a comment. Such things have been said many times about many jobs and have been wrong.
Its too bad that you might have some useful comments to contribute, but you tag yourself as a ideologue to be ignored like this.
If you understand psychology as well as you imply, you can see what is wrong with your statement. (hint: think justification and self-esteem)
Fact is, women simply cannot handle the training required for combat. Read about it yourself, here:
http://www.equityfeminism.com/articles/2002/000020.html
Notice that is from a site called EQUITY FEMINISM. Even THEY don't deny the facts of hard scientific research showing that women suffer more injuries during basic training than men. Read it and weep, sugar pie,
The main reason is that biological differences make women, on average, more susceptible to such training injuries. The lower muscle mass on average increases stress on the skeleton of women, women tend to emulate men's generally longer stride in marching, etc. This sort of phenomenon is also seen in injury rates among women athletes, who are generally far more prone to these sort of injuries than are male athletes.
(note the use of the word "phenomenon.")
What was that the researchers said??? "biological differences " and "lower muscle" and "far more prone to... injuries"
Oh yeah, baby.
My advice, kahuna, is that you should see someone about your penis envy.....
edit: added an "on topic" bit:
As for combat - I am not afraid of it. I have worked several years in the Red Cross as a volunteer and I think I have the stomach for the atrocity.
Then you are far more prepared than most. However, one of the reasons I never joined the military was the stories my father told me about what combat is like.
Imagine combing through a field of bodies charred with napalm, and killing any survivors you find.
Imagine picking up the 250-lb body of your dead friend and carring him (and your own gear) at a full run uphill in mountainous jungle terrain while being shot at with machine guns.
Imagine having your own limbs blown off by a mortor that you didn't even hear coming.
Imagine what living though that does to your psycholgy.
Ask yourself again if you are afraid of combat.
Covert operations would be much more rewarding too, I think, and just as challenging as a job in the military. As others have said, your language skills make you a shoe-in at any intelligence bureau in the western hemisphere. The CIA is working hard to recruit women. I know you don't have much of a chance with or opinion of them, but if they are seeking women, then others probably are too. Surely Finland has a secret service of some sort, don't they?
I've looked into the FBI and CIA myself, since I am about to graduate. Its not all translating newspapers and stuff. They really do send covert agents into other countries with false IDs and set them up in businesses and government jobs where they keep tabs on foreign governements and steal secrets.
Much more fun than going through boot camp and wearing a uniform.