At this point it seems like everyone is going around in circles.
@GreyLord doesn't like the Starter Set for whatever reason, so just let them be annoyed by it and they can use the original 5E Starter Set or Essentials Set going forward. They're just one person with a table of players who may or may not play D&D going forward. But so what? People bounce off of D&D all the time so who cares if this new Starter Set soured them on the game? They don't need to play it, and the "D&D community" doesn't lose anything if they don't, because that "community" is so large that no single individual or table can impact it. So why continue to argue about it?