flametitan
Explorer
The assumed 2 short rest thing is not in the core rules but we all know it due to the hivemind. IIRC it came form one of the game developers on a twitter post. How many D&D players follow the developers on Twitter?
Just to focus on this matter specifically: It is actually mentioned in the DMG (page 84) that you should ideally have two short rests to every long rest.
Otherwise, yes. People aren't necessarily going to play in the same way that the game is theorycrafted, if only because the DM and players might agree upon something that makes theorycrafting more difficult to accomplish (such as rolled stats/ hit points), or the focus of the game makes the combat minded optimization usually seen on the forums less relevant.