iserith
Magic Wordsmith
But when presented with a choice between killing someone and negotiating with them, you naturally choose to fight because that is how you get XP and magic items. [emoji6]
I see killing as a form of negotiating that goes 100% my way.

I think many DMs under-utilize the guidelines for non-combat challenges. In my current campaign, you get XP for combat or social and exploration is where you get treasure (usually).