Before I start please remember that this is my opinion only and is based on my experiences over the last 20 years or so.
Also from reading this thread it appears that other parts of the country have “FLGS”, but in my experience “F” is not something I would attribute to any of the stores I have frequented.
Before I start I want to mention that I have an MBA and work for a good sized corporation as a database developer building reporting systems so I know a thing or two about how businesses make money.
Over the years I have worked very hard to support LGS. This has included doing demo’s for various gaming companies (AEG, WOTC, Wizkids), Running RPG events at stores and conventions organized by LGS, running the store of a friend during a family crisis, buying overpriced product, and generally promoting the stores. Every one of these stores has failed, and all of them failed due to bad management.
The biggest problem I have seen is that stores are not run as businesses, and are usually more of a “Boys Club” for gamers.
Through the years I have been treated badly by store employees, even when doing demos. There is one occurrence of this that sticks out in my mind, it was the day that I drove an hour to a nearby store to do a L5R demo and found that all of the space that had been promised to me had been taken over by a Pokemon tournament. The store owner didn’t even call me to let me know. This type of thing happened all the time, and 99% of the time the store owner didn’t even bother to promote the event so I would travel for an hour and find no one there to demo. One time I traveled two hours in a freezing rain storm to find that the owner had told everyone the event was cancelled (and I was there on time).
I have seen employees many times take reserved books and sell them to a person other than the originally asked to hold it, and then try to give a lame excuse when the person who called walks in ten minutes later.
I have seen owners (including my friend) take money from the register to go out to dinner and then not have money to pay for stock for the store shelves.
I have seen 2 people in line to buy Magic cards and the first person pays less than retail because he is friends with the owner\employee and the second pays over retail by a hefty amount because the set is hard to get, try explaining that one to an irate customer.
I could go on forever, but my point is that if a LGS wants to survive then they need to learn something about business and putting “Support your FLGS” in the middle of threads on this board is not the way to do it.
I no longer support LGS since I don’t want to deal with these things. I buy online from a select number of vendors and since my purchases are not impulse purchases it does not bother me to wait for a week for my stuff to arrive. For me it is not about the savings, but it is a nice added benefit of ordering from online vendors.
One of my friends and his wife have recently opened a new store, and I have not gone near it. There are a number of reasons, including the long drive to get there (close to 2 hours). I also don’t want to get involved, and I know from experience that there store will be just like every other I have been in and there chance of success is about the same as the rest. I have wished them luck, but without a change in the general attitude of store ownership in the area every store is destined to fail unless they are backed with a huge amount of cash and don’t mind losing money.