Players have a huge array of game elements to play with. 4e has dozens of playable races, dozens of classes, and hundreds of powers. 3e likewise. 5e, after an initial period when they just haven't got around to releasing everything yet, will no doubt also have a huge array of options.
You have enough. It is absolutely not unreasonable for the DM to simply say, "these options are off-limits."
Agreed. A DM, any I daresay "good" DM, knows how to say "No"...or NOT. If they like playin' with the kitchen sink of races and the bathtub full of powers/feats/skills/classes/what have you, and that's what their group likes/wants. Then bully for you/them.
The entire point of building 5e as a "modular" system with options, options, options...if to ba able to say, "We're having this. We're not having that. We conducting this portion of play with these rules but not those" and each DM/group can make things just the way they want.
The arguments "this MUST" and "that HAS TO be in" to make 3e-ers or 4e-ers or Old Skoolers happy" is all, really, a) completely moot until we see what actually IS in the new game and b) a bunch of nonsense. If the game is going to offer your an optional module to play what you want to play, then who cares if
this is "core" or
that is in the "default" in the next PHB. You'll still be able to play the game you like.
Modular. Options. Build and play the game as you want it. And stop wasting everyone's time with "this has to be in or I won't play it...it won't be
fair to my generation of gamers...or your generation of gamers...or your setting's are stupid...or my half-dragonborn/half-vampire/half-paladin warlock is sooo cool it HAS to have multiple pages of rules the way I want it...or halflings/hobbits are soooo yesterday they should be shot....or else!"
I have my preferences. I have my opinions of what might work best, or make a game "most fun"
for me. As previously stated, I think Eladrin were a pointless addition to the game. But...
The history of the game did not
start with 3 or 4e...what came before was not "useless" or "wrong". By the same token, nor did the game
end after 2e. What came after is not "badwrongfun" for many people...an entire generation of gamers, at this point.
Because 3.x is what you
[and I'm using the communal "you" throughout here, delericho, not at all meaning you, specifically] like does not make it the end all be all. Because 1e is what
I like does not make it that either.
Saying "
what if they did XYZ" or "I'd
like to see ABC" is all fun and cool. But arguments about what should and shouldn't be "in" are pointless at this stage of the [not yet made/published!] game.
As always, play...and defend...what you like. But not at the expense of everyone else's preferences, playstyle or game system of choice
or the game's
full history.
That's all, I think...on that...and apologies for veering off topic. I'm spending too much time in these "New Horizons" threads.
--SD