Faolyn
(she/her)
So basically:There is a separate issue as well with pointing to settings like Eberron or Dark Sun.
These settings are really not very popular overall. At least, according to WotC and others when they talk about this sort of thing. You've got hombrewers, you've got people who use the Forgotten Realms, and then, over there in the corner, you have everyone else. Sure, I'm sure that people have heard of Eberron. But the number of actual players? Very small. There's a reason that the Adventurers League stuff is all set in Forgotten Realms and, outside a couple of exceptions like Ravenloft, all the WOtC AP's have been baselined into FR. It's because we can at least sort of assume that D&D players will be familiar with FR stuff.
Forgotten Realms have sucky halflings. For whatever reason, WotC has decided to focus on the Realms. Therefore, all halflings must be assumed to be similar to Realms halflings, and no halflings in other settings should be used as an example of good halflings, because... WotC has pushed a setting with sucky halflings.
It's a bit of a No True Scotsmen thing: trying to prove that halflings suck by saying that the settings where they are cool don't count for some arbitrary reason.
I generally assume that people hear about settings through word of mouth, or through seeing that they exist and then asking other people about them, or looking through the associated wiki or subreddit. "Dino-riding halflings" is one of the things that always gets mentioned when Eberron is asked about. Kind of like "weirdly British hippos with guns and bombs" always gets mentioned when Spelljammer is asked about. "Dragonmarked houses" also gets mentioned a lot when Eberron is brought up, and from there, the fact that halflings have two of them.So, pointing to something like Eberron, which doesn't advertise the fact that it has halflings - that's certainly not the main draw of the setting- as a potential solution for those who want more halfling material isn't really fair. How would anyone even begin to think that, yeah, if I want an interesting take on halflings, I should pick up Eberron?