I find having to make the same discussions continuously, ad nauseum is more than exhausting.
It feels like people value being right than learning on a fundamental level, such that they'll make claims more for the value of entertainment and "pwning" the other person rather than going at it with the intention to consider a new perspective.
I don't feel like changing people's minds, I just want people to actually understand my position and not give the same canned response that gets repeated across the internet, as if the internet is always correct. I also hate hiveminds and echo chambers. It's one reason I'm glad these types of forums don't have downvote penalties. I'm always skeptical until I either experience something or I am given a new perspective that makes sense from a more objective angle. Sometimes, I won't be perfect in that goal, but I can assure that I do try.
I don't believe the "opposition" is incorrect completely, though. I just want to get to the heart of their reasoning. Like how if you keep asking "why." Someone will answer the question with a definitive "because it reminds me of the mellow times with just me and my father before he passed." And you go "Ah, yeah. Now I understand why you'd put condensed milk on pizza."
Sorry for the rant, I'm just tired of getting defensive or gotcha arguments when I genuinely do value discussions.